The arrow that missed

Whether a missed shot is a failure depends entirely on who is holding the bow.

AS A KID, I used to string up a stout stick bent to the hilt, and practised archery. Taking to archery was a decision driven by the stories I heard growing up.

The tales of heroic Gods and warriors who were well known for hitting the bullseye. Tales of Lord Rama, who strung a bow no one could lift. Tales of Arjuna, who shot the eye of a revolving fish while looking only at its reflection in oil below. Tales of William Tell, who, without flinching once, split an apple balanced on his own son’s head. These were stand-out moments that showcased heroic mastery.

As a young man, I was enamoured by these tales. They fuelled my love for archery. I kept going back to my bent stick and my chalk-marked wall, missing more than I hit.

THE FRAYED STRING

The remnants of the hours of playing in my garden were symbols of failure: a frayed string on a worn-out bow, and a target-board in shambles. But you can’t fault me for not trying! This thought takes me back to another story.

Adhiyamaan Nedumaan Anji, a Velir chieftain from the Sangam era, once sent poet saint Avvaiyar as his envoy to the court of the neighbouring king, Thondaimaan. Avvaiyar was no ordinary messenger. At the royal armoury, she employed sly praise remarking on how gleaming and untouched the weapons looked. The implication was clear. Adhiyamaan’s arms, by contrast, were worn, dull, and battle-hardened.

A MISS IS NEVER JUST A MISS

What lessons does hitting the bullseye teach someone learning archery? Only that their aim was true. But those who miss it learn many more lessons. Every missed shot carries a debrief. The arrow that fell short tells you about the pullback — the further you draw the bowstring behind you, the further the arrow travels forward. The one that dipped too early reminds you to aim slightly higher than where you want to reach, because gravity does not make exceptions for effort. The one that drifted sideways introduces you to the crosswind, one of many factors you have no control over. ‘Missing’ is a remarkably thorough teacher!

There is a question every archer quietly wrestles with, and it turns out to be more interesting than it first appears. Look at the illustration showing four different target boards. The one that should worry you most is not the cluster that sits away from the bullseye. Your form is repeatable, your muscle memory is working, and all you need is a small correction in aim. The board that offers nothing to work with is the one where arrows are scattered everywhere. You cannot fix what has no pattern. Consistency is the thing worth building first. Accuracy, nearly inevitably, follows.

TRUST THE PROCESS

I will let you in on a secret. Many of the corporate success stories that go viral today are almost always told in reverse. The failures get edited out. They are too unglamorous, too messy, and too hard to fit into a keynote slide. What remains is the bullseye, and the impression that it was always the plan. This is what critical thinkers call the Texas Sharpshooter Fallacy. It is the habit of firing at a barn wall first and then drawing the target around the bullet holes. Every shot, in hindsight, looks deliberate. Every miss disappears. Think about it. The bent stick, the frayed string, and the arrows that missed. They were never signs of failure. They were the education. Perhaps the wisest archers say nothing about where they are aiming until the arrow has landed. Not out of fear. But out of the quiet understanding that the work was always real, and that the result, when it comes, will be well worth it.

Ready, Shoot, Aim — as they say!

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